Saturday, October 26, 2019

Cherish your Spouse


This past week for a class, I read a parable given by Elder Boyd K. Packer, and I thought it was a really interesting parable and really helped me cherish my spouse.  The parable is from his talk titled For Time and All Eternity and was given in the October of 1993 General Conference.  
"Once a man received as his inheritance two keys. The first key, he was told, would open a vault which he must protect at all cost. The second key was to a safe within the vault which contained a priceless treasure. He was to open this safe and freely use the precious things which were stored therein. He was warned that many would seek to rob him of his inheritance. He was promised that if he used the treasure worthily, it would be replenished and never be diminished, not in all eternity. He would be tested. If he used it to benefit others, his own blessings and joy would increase.
The man went alone to the vault. His first key opened the door. He tried to unlock the treasure with the other key, but he could not, for there were two locks on the safe. His key alone would not open it. No matter how he tried, he could not open it. He was puzzled. He had been given the keys. He knew the treasure was rightfully his. He had obeyed instructions, but he could not open the safe.
In due time, there came a woman into the vault. She, too, held a key. It was noticeably different from the key he held. Her key fit the other lock. It humbled him to learn that he could not obtain his rightful inheritance without her.
They made a covenant that together they would open the treasure and, as instructed, he would watch over the vault and protect it; she would watch over the treasure. She was not concerned that, as guardian of the vault, he held two keys, for his full purpose was to see that she was safe as she watched over that which was most precious to them both. Together they opened the safe and partook of their inheritance. They rejoiced for, as promised, it replenished itself."[1]
The parable continues and explains how we can pass the treasure on to our children and how we can teach them about the keys and covenants that help us receive our inheritance.  I felt that the first half of the parable applied better to the topic of cherishing our spouse.  Just like the man and the woman who were able to receive their inheritance by not withholding anything from the other, if we cherish our spouse and do all that we can to make sure that we are fulfilling our covenants, we will be able to be blessed with the joy that only comes from being faithful and loyal to our spouse and eternal joy after this life in the Celestial Kingdom.  
There are lots of ways that we can cherish our spouse.  My wife and I always strive to show our gratitude for each other, and as we both work to make life easier for each other by helping each other do chores, prepare dinner, or whatever it may be, our marriage is strengthened through the love we show for each other.  It isn't always perfect but the amount of love and support we show for each other helps us overcome any obstacles we face.  
In closing, I encourage you all to continue reading the parable of the keys by Elder Packer.  As we do our part to be a covenant-keeping and faithful spouse, we will grow to cherish our spouse.


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